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22.10.10

Saturday 6

Not much is goin on today.. The husband has duty so all i have to look foward to is blogging LOL.. 
Hope everyone has a fantastic weekend!

Here is what ive been dealing with for the past week.
My oldest brother [ i will call him M] has had custody of his oldest child [ will call her D] for a good amount of time now. Her momma is a fuckin great shitty person. ever since her and M broke it off back in o maybe 98-99.. shes been a smut.. but hey im not judging her parenting skills based on this. Anyways She cant take care of D financially or give her the kind of life M is offering her. But yet she has fought M for custody ever since she  found out he got married. Vengeful lil bitch!!  While fighting M for custody through out about 2-3 yrs she has been pregnant all three years.. As of right now D is the oldest of 5 from her momma. Well M got custody of D because her mother gave it to M when she found out they would be checking out her house to make sure D had her own room and stuff. Why did she do this well here is why ... D'd mom lives with her mom, sister, sisters 3 kids and her own 4! [did i mention she is on welfare and refuses to get a job]
D does not have her own room, D doesnt have anything to call her own in that house.
M was gonna end u getting custody if they actually went to court b/c he is married[ he got lucky and found a girl whos daddy is well off] has a stable job and D has her own room [ hell her own floor] in his house. Well your all probably like whats the fucking point. Im getting there..
Well this summer M's father in law took the entire family M, wife, D, Twins[ for got to mentions M has 2 yr old wins now] Sister in law n family to Atlantis [ Bahamas] D came back with an attitude n wanting to be at her mommas 24/7.  It is now Oct and D moved out of M's house n to her mothers.
D does not call M unless i tell her to or she needs minutes on her phone.  D also has done a complete 360 from the person she is when she is with M. She turns "ghetto" when she is at her moms ..
SO for the past week i have been tryin to help M deal with D leaving and giving him advice. Being his little sister i feel kinda ackward he has never asked me for help. He recently told me that his father in law has a college fund set up for D and if she doesnt attempt to keep in touch they[ being his father in law] will shut it off! I have been tryin to get D [ who by the way is 14] to tell me why she left or just to tell me anything and she wont!!  I try because i know that M wants her to have more than him or her momma had !! I try because i dont want her to end up pregnant at 14 like her cousin who she idolizes as if she were a god [ Did i mention the cousin and her baby also live in the house hold !  i honestly want to just tell D .. to go fucking home n cut the shit out but i know shell just stop talkin to me all together..



Now onto Boobies & Ashlee's Saturday 6

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So for Saturday Six...tell us how you get down in the bedroom. (All about your sleep style sickos! Get your mind out of the gutter!)

Questions
  • How many hours per night/day do you sleep?
  • Night owl or morning person?
  • What do you wear to bed?
  • Sleep crutches? (Sleep with a radio, fan, t.v. on? Have to have something particular in order to doze?)
  • Do you remember your dreams when you wake up?
  • Any strange stories about sleepwalking/talking or anything of that nature?
 My Answers 
1. i want to say 4-5 hours a night if that no napping during the day..
the Tiniez sleep n momma cleans
2. Night Owl.. well if i lived in the states then id be a morning person
because of the time diff LOL.. 
3. Mr. PI's Tshirt or Pjs what ever i find first 
4. Anything that makes a noise works for me .. 
I come from NYC where sirens, ppl talking, gun shots, etc are the noises i fell asleep to
5. On rare occasion i do 
6. LMAO .. not that i know of but the Mr sure as hell sleep talks when he is super exhausted!


7 comments:

Crisc said...

We seem to have the same sleep habit =)

Secret Mom Thoughts said...

I so could not function on 4-5 hours.

Ange said...

I know your heart is breaking for D. One of my good friends has dealt with the same issue with her step-daughter. Her step daughter wanted to go live with her mom because there were less rules there, and she could get away with so much more.

Anonymous said...

OMG! You only sleep 4/5 hours a night?!!! I'm sleepy just reading this!

As for D...my heart goes out to him. I've seen so many times the bond between a mother and a daughter be a strong one...even if the mother is not necessarily of good morals. He's just gotta let it play out and hope she comes to her senses as she gets older. :(

Anonymous said...

4-5 hours, even on advil pm's min of 4!

Morning Person as long as there is coffee!

Oversized t-shirt

No crutches

No dreams

No stories, maybe if I got a solid go nights sleep lol

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Anonymous said...

4-5 hours a night!!! my god i'd be dead!!!

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