Limber, Gurus , etc

 General:

 Hi everyone!! This week will be a kind of hectic week! My baby turns 2 on Monday and his bday party is this sat!! the theme is yo gabba gabba! So its time to turn on the magic and make my baby's bday the best i can. His last bday didnt really happen since daddy wasnt home on the actual day [ deployed] and on the day of the party the command decided noone can leave the ship until 2300! 

So im tryin to make this one a lil more memorable for him =) i know that most people think that at age 2 kids dont remember much, but i do! and i want to be able to look back n tell him about all his bdays.

Limbels:

So as i said yesterday i was goin to attempt to make limbels de coco [ coconut icees] well im on day 2 and guess what i am still  grating the coconuts by hand!! geez now i now how my grandparents felt when they would make pasteles by hand! [ too much work but i refuse to quit] so im gonna give it all of today and if im still not done i will use recipe 2 LOL ..  i wanted to do the first one initially but geez my hand hurts and well my son thinks its snow n wants to throw it. LOL 

Gurus:

Today it was brought to my attention the mean things that people can say about others on forums.[ hence me not really being on any unless they are children related] I was linked to the site by the owner of the cosmetics company i purchase from. Reading the forum made me feel like i was in middle school. Grown women belittling others for having a hustle and making money!! SMH! i just couldnt believe the crap people were dishing out! 

The Website: guru gossip

they have forums such as "trash a guru" "rave a guru" etc etc 

i can really careless about this but this brought a question to my head.

What makes someone a guru? is it the amount of followers they have? their artistic ability? did they give themselves this title? or just the fact that they can go on about anything for days at a time?

i would really like your feedback on this, because in my opinion u must be good at something in order for you to give your self that title!